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2020.09.20 16:36 patelyahya45 Pm1 EI call center North York - days off during training or wait for Scarborough offer that I really want?

Hey guys, so I recently got asked bunch of questions regarding pm1 ei call center and had two tentative starting dates. I replied saying yes I'll be interested abd then realized training days are mandatory. I assume I'll be getting personal days which I plan on using for my midterms and final exams. (half days each course and 3-4 of them). Does this look bag on me. When I get the actual offer should I just tell them then and decline the offer be kept in the pool and wait till I'm done?
I also applied for Scarborough but didn't get the offer for that twice now. Both times I got offered were four north York.
Someone please give me advice.
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2020.09.20 16:33 FirenBelmont I'm a dumb idiot who went $400 over budget pls help.

What will you be doing with this PC? Be as specific as possible, and include specific games or programs you will be using.
Video Editing, Graphic Design (the whole Adobe package), streaming and gaming. The games i specifically want to play are Tekken 7, Endless Space 2, The Witcher 3 and the upcoming Cyberpunk at good quality and stable fps. I tend to play not so demanding games, mainly because i couldn't run simple stuff like Overwatch without it looking like a knockoff ps2 game so im looking to go through the high end games that i missed since 2016 as well.
What is your maximum budget before rebates/shipping/taxes?
$1400 USD (with an extra $100 if absolutely needed) If possible to get it for $1200 or even lower that would also be helpful.
When do you plan on building/buying the PC? Note: beyond a week or two from today means any build you receive will be out of date when you want to buy.
Any time really, maybe have it in the next 4 to 6 months.
What, exactly, do you need included in the budget? (ToweOS/monitokeyboard/mouse/etc)
Tower, monitor, keyboard and bluetooth connection for my headphones. My Logitech G600 mouse is starting to croak but i think it still has a year or two left.
Which country (and state/province) will you be purchasing the parts in? If you're in US, do you have access to a Microcenter location?
Mexico, in Mexico City. Shipping in the country from one state to another is quite inexpensive if that also helps.
If reusing any parts (including monitor(s)/keyboard/mouse/etc), what parts will you be reusing? Brands and models are appreciated.
Just the Logitech Mouse i mentioned.
Will you be overclocking? If yes, are you interested in overclocking right away, or down the line? CPU and/or GPU?
I'm interested in overclocking just the cpu later down the line unless i need to do it right away so i get better performance from a cheaper cpu and gpu even. I don't know how to do it so guides on how to do this are also welcome.
Are there any specific features or items you want/need in the build? (ex: SSD, large amount of storage or a RAID setup, CUDA or OpenCL support, etc)
Do you have any specific case preferences (Size like ITX/microATX/mid-towefull-tower, styles, colors, window or not, LED lighting, etc), or a particular color theme preference for the components?
Don't really care about the aesthetics. I barely have space in the corner of the living room for this as is. This is similar to what i have. I just want it to be efficient.
Do you need a copy of Windows included in the budget? If you do need one included, do you have a preference?
Nope.
Extra info or particulars:
i kinda did a preeliminar build only using amazon and newegg tho i went 400 over (as stated) so thats why im here. But just now i've come across a list of websites that also sell parts and are trusted by mexican pc builders, so if you find a good component but is a bit more expensive in amazon please still list it so i can compare it with the other sites. Here's the list if anyone is interested: - DDTechh.mx - Dimercom.mx - Digitalife.com.mx - Zegucom.com.mx - PCMIG.com.mx - PCEL.com - Cyberpuerta.mx - SupermexDigital.mx
Thanks in advance, really, any help is much appreciated. Also, mods, i apologize if this gets flagged as spam, i tried editing my first post but somehow i deleted half of it so i decided to redo it from scratch and make it better.
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2020.09.20 16:33 LifesucksR Worst things about being a teen

  1. Dating/Crushes/Rejection) Dating nowadays is rough especially if your a younger teen dating can feel more out of peer pressure then of actual love for the other person. Your going to be thru Puberty as well as SATS, and you gotta worry about getting rejected. It's hard to ask out your crush, and rejection sucks, but if you don't try asking anyone out you will regret it for the rest of your life.
  2. School.... School takes a dramatic turn once you enter the later stages of middle school or of high school. Suddenly, every single grade will count towards you getting into college. As well as waking up at 5am just so you could be ready for your 6:45 bus.
  3. Puberty . (I'm a male) Well I can't speak much for girls, but I do know that guys have it pretty hard. Let's be honest most of us get horny wayyy to often. Most of us can't go 2/3 days without beating our meat. Another thing that sucks, would have to be getting hard. It sucks getting hard in public and sometimes you can't hide it. It's crazy embarrassing when you go up to the smartboard in math and suddenly get a boner
  4. Stress. Whether caused by school, social obligations, or other things, stress is a part of every all our lives. Finding balance between freedom and responsibilities is the key to making the best out of your teenage years.
  5. Getting a job. Your 16 and your parent's wont let you sit around the house all summer. You need money, so you begin looking for a job. You find one but sadly it's at the Mc Donald's around the corner. Although it's humiliating you need the money so you take the job.
  6. If anyone else has anything to add please share!
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2020.09.20 16:32 jivoochi My ex got married this weekend and I regret breaking things off with them even though it was for the best

Using gender-neutral pronouns for privacy. TLDR at the bottom.
My ex and I dated for over a year, I moved cities to be close to them while they went to school. Their family are great folks and overall the relationship was good except for one major sticking point.
They wanted kids and I did not.
I made this point crystal clear from the beginning but they seemed to be on the fence about it until after we had been together for a while and admitted they had always wanted to be a parent some day. They figured I would change my mind and held out hope, I suppose.
I still don't want kids and cannot budge from my position, it would not be fair to anyone involved so I figured it would be best to break things off and move on. It was sad but amicable and we both moved on to other relationships quickly thereafter.
I just found out this morning they got married this weekend to the person they started dating immediately after we had broken up. I'm still with the person I started dating but I cannot help but feel regret and sadness. Our relationship is ok but there have been some addiction and behaviour issues bubble up, money stress, etc.
I am truly happy for my ex I just got hit by an unexpected wave of emotions. I just wonder how life would have been different if we had stayed together. Maybe I'm just looking back with rose-tinted glasses.
TLDR; Ex got married this weekend and I now feel resentment toward my current partner because it feels like I chose the wrong person.
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2020.09.20 16:27 CatsDrinkingScotch What is your gender and why do you want a partner?

I'm interested in the various reasons that people date or try to date. What is the reason why that motivates you to find a partner? What good do you think you'll get out of having a partner?
If your answer is sex/intimacy please include another reason as well. I don't really bother looking for dates/dating and I'm wondering if perhaps there are good reasons why to put in the effort that I hadn't considered.
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2020.09.20 16:27 rum_4869 My Theory on Rum Arc

Rum is first mentioned in ch 898. Where Akai shuuichi recieves a msg from Kir.
It was just the three letters 'RUM' in uppercase. Kir messaged akai not jodie. Akai deduced that it is urgent and she had no time to contact Jodie.

Kir's msg.
The upper case letters suggest threatening nature of the situation and directly msging akai suggests that Akai is directly involved.
Akai says that he heard the Rum's name 2 or 3 times when he was in BO. Imo that's lower than expected from no.2 of the org. (suggesting that rum was inactive when akai was in BO)
Moving on, Haibara's memories of rum when she was in BO

https://preview.redd.it/2bhi11b8zao51.png?width=693&format=png&auto=webp&s=7987619d9524484d1a9acff14fbb4b9b78b529f0

Looking at the first image, It's quite contradicting that haibara can't remember an important detail about an important member of BO, while she remembers gin's car. (Another hint suggesting that rum was inactive when haibara was in BO).
The second image, the multiple body descriptions suggest that rum is good at disguise. Another possibility which is mentioned is rum's body doubles, which i think is less likely bc rum messed up in 17 years ago case where koji and amanda were killed, if rum had body doubles then rum could have easily put blame on one of them and sacrificed them to police thereby closing the case.
Finally haibara remembers that one detail.
https://preview.redd.it/xtjpc7ru4ao51.jpg?width=629&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=defa0271d541183b4034eb6e2f8715d78f1aeb61
The source of information is not reliable, therefore it can be wrong or incomplete.
The ch where rum is mentioned first also had a small trick by Agasa. That's when akai comments:
Foreshadowing that rum's descriptions are tricks.
Now take a look at the following, it is a very old case, where there are multiple descriptions of the culprit.

https://preview.redd.it/87hjc0vb6ao51.jpg?width=1114&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9ab9a77a369c5d0d112c611510087d690d545ca2
In the end we realize that all the descriptions belong to one person only.
https://preview.redd.it/1no1tc250bo51.png?width=1162&format=png&auto=webp&s=79765c8b2ad1c0a29aeeffad3d6a13082ff1d45a
And in the case where detective boys give different description for the culprit also suggest that it is very easy to mistake the descriptions. (ch 939 - ch 941)
Rum having a prosthetic eye seems absurd because prosthetic eye is a delicate thing and requires maintenance, which would make rum dependent on a doctor and it would be dangerous to go out in situations where physical fights are probable, which is a common situation for BO. (Gun fights etc)
If rum has lost one eye, it is wiser to have a stichted eye(like kansuke, or he can have a pirate's eyepatch too ;)

Prosthetic eye is a red herring
There's one possibility that rum suffers from this disease and ppl mistake it for artificial eye.
The 17 year old crime scene.

https://preview.redd.it/qldjtkwobao51.png?width=1223&format=png&auto=webp&s=7a7f576b8bf0883018e70616ef95219e3b01956f
The main points from the case includes
This is really important bc it sort of explains why FBI and CIA are concerned with BO. Amanda was a millionaire and her death would have been investigated by FBI and CIA and they have somehow linked it to BO.
This contradicts the MO of the Black Org., there crimes are clean.
This has no basis but I think Amanda was related to Karasuma (wife maybe)
Why I think Wakasa Rumi is not Rum.
This is based on Wakasa's memories.

Wakasa's Memories
Wakasa's memories suggest that she knew koji before he was killed. She also had the hunch that he will be killed.
Her right eye hurts when she remembers the incident. This is common with post traumatic stress and she might have lost her eye while fighting rum (Explained later in this post)
She has a fake eye bc it will be better than a patch for an elementary school teacher. Since children might get scared of scars on eyes and she would look dangerous.
. This also suggests that Wakasa Rumi is not Asaka, because asaka should be present while kouji was killed but asaka's memories have blood around kouji's mouth.

Blood pool around Kouji's mouth
This suggest that she came there when kouji had been dead for some time.
Also wakasa's hatred for charms.
https://preview.redd.it/ki39ubofiao51.jpg?width=425&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=820f3863925463bb6f4d18d12321a84f3e490498
She also threw ayumi's charm away. This strongly suggest that she hates lucky charms because kouji said he won't die bc he had his charm and went into danger recklessly.
Why I think Wakita Kanenori is not RUM
This is based on the message 'Time is Money.'
I think it is unwise to reveal his disguise to bourbon. He only wants information on kudo shinichi from him, which he can get on mail or if he wants physical copies he can ask for it without revealing his cover.
First possibility
Rum is telling bourbon that wakita is a Person of Interest. (someone investigating them or a threat to them) But if it was this case, then rum should have stated the it clearly instead of making it a code. There's a possibility that rum considered that wakita might be keeping a watch on bourbon and is tapping his phone etc.
2nd possibility,
Rum is threatening bourbon. Wakita is another BO member who is independent of bourbon but under the direct command of rum. Rum is threatening bourbon that he's has wakita to keep a watch on him.
I belive its the 2nd possibility which is true. (Explained later.)
https://preview.redd.it/20d3ctx5kao51.jpg?width=731&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1f31c71a62e1f0ce36544af86ad884ed0e6aa27b
Or he's telling bourbon to collaborate with wakita to get info on kudo shinichi. One more possibility that is less likely. Rum is testing bourbon like Mary tested Conan. (sister from another domain) It's less likely bc there's no reason for rum to test him. Bourbon has already proved himself and earned a codename.
Wakita's Identity
Wakita's curiosity for solving mysteries and his posture in the following image led me to believe that he is Tsutomu Akai.
Wakita's pose
This pose looks very disciplined just like FBI officials but we know he is not from FBI bc akai says
Akai saying his father was not from FBI
I think He is from SIS ( MI6) or other intelligence agency from UK. Althought the pose looks like more of a military person.
Tsutomu and Wakita similarity for solving mysteries
I believe Wakita is Tsutomu and also be a BO agent under rum.
Why I think Kuroda Hyoue is RUM
By process of elimination we can say kuroda is RUM but I have a good reason to believe he is definitely RUM.
Kuroda's memory of koji

No blood pool
In the above image we can see that kouji has no blood pool around his mouth we suggests that kuroda was present there when kouji had just died.
We all know Rumi took the shogi piece from Kouji's dead body, which had a blood pool and it was not possible if police had already been there.
therefore kuroda's memory of kouji makes no sense if he didn't kill him.
Therefore Kuroda killed kouji.
The Theory
Kuroda is RUM.
He was disguised as Asaka, he wanted to eliminate kouji bc amanda and kouji had info on BO and possibly on karasuma.
He put the aptx in the food that amanda and kouji were eating, (It was easy for him because he was asaka)
Kouji relalised it, Kuroda had to resort to violence and in the struggle kouji stabbed kuroda's eye.
In this confusion, amanda fled back to her room, maybe to call for help.
Kuroda chased her with his eye still hurting, he killed amanda. (How she was killed is unkown.)
Meanwhile wakasa rumi approached the scene bc kouji hadn't returned or called her to tell her everything is ok.
She find him dead, takes a good look of the crime scene.
filled with anger she attacked him almost killing him, kuroda gave him a serious eye injury.
in all this chaos a lot of noise was made and the neighbors heard it.
Someone arrived at the scene, she takes bishop piece from kouji (as a memento) and fled.
Kuroda is unconscious, he is found as a victim. Note that he is from police. When He explains that he was on a stake out.
7 years later
kuroda has the eye disease (mentioned above) that makes everyone believe that he has a fake eye.
Wakasa Rumi sets BO's lab on fire. This was done to attract everyone's attraction to it, which gave her time to take the data from BO's computers. She learned about karasuma from kouji's dying message. (I think the dying message works 2 ways, it means karasuma and also asaka rum, With kouji trying to tell rumi that asaka is rum)

A dialogue that suggest rumi set fire
Wakasa Rumi wants to destroy BO. She is searching for rum too.
Kuroda was caught in this fire which spread across their hq and burned his face, He went to coma. He was kept in police hospital.

He was in coma for 10 years.
The reason his hair changed color is easy, because he dyed his hair. (I think, he dyed his hair to look young.(The strong man description from haibara.))
so, why doesn't he eliminate wakasa? because his memories are gone. He doesn't remember wakasa's face. remember he was injured in his eye too, his vision might be blurry at that time due to shock from injury.
Kuroda starts again with searching for the person who attacked him when he killed kouji (Both of them don't know each other)
He looks at the list of aptx which has kudo shinichi's name. Observing that kudo shinichi being alive was redacted, he became suspicious of him and asked bourbon for info while threatening him by saying wakita's name as a code. (He has suspicion on bourbon too.)
(Meanwhile wakita who is tsutomu thinks that bourbon is loyal to BO and says that line about traitor.)
He thinks that akai shuuichi is alive and bourbon is betraying him by helping akai.

https://preview.redd.it/xnji6bfg6bo51.png?width=836&format=png&auto=webp&s=6858fa003a08e3a817ee2d4e4b44e2ea91ecd457
Kuroda hears from Takagi and Sato that koumei recieved something from Date's locker and koumei deduced that his brother(scotch) joined PSB . Kuroda has inlet from BO that scotch was NOC and he was killed by akai, so he figured that someone from there sent the package to Date, that someone is a traitor(Bourbon), so he asked him to inform him about the sender. He said he will when he gets to know about it(He says he isn't sure), to which kuroda says time is money out of habit. koumei thinks that he should keep it a secret bc bourbon might be a NOC. He also solved Time is money = wakita kanenori, that's why he says that in above image.
https://preview.redd.it/7769k16u7bo51.jpg?width=810&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=48429e63b0fe323a36599b6b670526f464fade19
In short: Kuroda is asaka and rum. Wakita is tsutomu and BO agent under rum. wakasa set the fire that killed haibara's parents.
P.S.: I might have missed some things. will appreciate constructive criticism.
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2020.09.20 16:26 JmodTracker [Mod Rowley] - /u/JagexRowley on One more week to keep Orthen Digsite promise

I suspect this stems from the timeline section of last Runefest's keynote speech. The word 'summer' is mentioned, and Orthen soon after (but with a clear - to me - break in the speech and showing it at the end of the visual timeline on the screen). Regardless, these such talks are only ever plans, not promises.
I can understand how one might misinterpret that, and also that not everyone keeps up with all our official communications.
The only official communications since then, suggesting any sort of release date, is a dev Q&A livestream from a few weeks ago. Here is Rubic's tl;dw, with a link to the VOD (watch from the 12-minute mark for the clearly stated October release window - still not a promise, especially given how bad 2020 has been for us all):
https://www.reddit.com/runescape/comments/ih6wnj/tldw_491_jmod_qa/
Oh, and Mod Orion tweeted about our progress going well also a few weeks or so back.
All that said, since we set our October release internally (when we started dev a few months ago), it has not moved, and nor does it look like it will need to. It's coming along nicely. Expect to hear more about it in early October (I would guess). I hope you're all gonna like it!
Small note to all: sprint review is just something we do every 2 weeks for all work in active development. Mod Warden was just referring to the particular review we had held just before that Q&A livestream.
Link to post here https://www.reddit.com/runescape/comments/isreq8/one\_more\_week\_to\_keep\_orthen\_digsite\_promise/g5z6ut!
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2020.09.20 16:26 question_throwaway25 What's it like being childfree?

I came across this subreddit this morning and have been looking around a little at some posts. And a question for you guys on here, what's it like being childfree?
I've thought myself of never having any in the future, because some young kids get on my nerves and annoy me to no end. But then I think I would regret it, and what if my sibling didn't have any kids? And I like some kids, like my baby cousin, she's almost 2 and is the sweetest little thing. It might just be a thought, and I'll have them later in life (late 30s-40s) unlike most of my immediate family, who had kids at 17, 18, or their early 20s.
I only really know one person without kids or her own, and it's my aunt. She's in her late 30s, but is dating someone with her own kids though she has her own apartment.
Maybe I could just be the cool "aunt" or something? I have a lot of cousins who could all have kids in the future and I could just hold their kids.
Edit: Right now kids are screaming bloody murder at the park and outside my house 20 minutes ago a bunch were doing the same. I know they can make noise but do they have to be so loud?
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2020.09.20 16:24 tacotekitech I'm a monogamous lesbian (f 23) and I caught my bisexual girlfriend (f 24) in bed with her ex-boyfriend.

This happened about a year ago but until now it still bothers me every time I remember it so I'm gonna post it here.
(TLDR: I caught my ex girlfriend having sex with her supposed "ex-boyfriend" in her apartment and she told me that despite being bisexual, she couldn't imagine herself having a family with a woman in the end because her religious beliefs consider the LGBT+ as abominations.)
Background story: I was in a monogamous relationship with my now ex-girlfriend. I thought things were going great for us. Her and I are both in Medical school, we've never even had any serious fights at all, and we find time to go on dates despite our hectic schedule. We were together for about one year and a half before the incident last year.
So, what happened? About a year ago, I decided to surprise visit her at her apartment. I brought takeout food and drinks, just so we can watch Netflix and have dinner after a busy week with exams. I didn't tell her beforehand that I was coming (obviously it was a surprise), so I went ahead to her room at the apartment because she also gave me my own set of keys so that I can just come in anytime.
When I opened the door, the first thing I heard were noises coming from her bedroom. You already know what's next: She was having sex with her ex-boyfriend in her bedroom.
When I caught them in the act, they immediately stopped and I don't want to get into the details of what happened at that time but basically, she kept apologizing and her supposed "ex-boyfriend" kept telling her to just tell me the truth about them already. It was very messy.
It turns out they've been fucking and seeing each other for months already behind my back.
I didn't have the guts to stay and listen to any more of her excuses, so I left her apartment and went back home. I needed to process what just happened and it was extremely overwhelming seeing my girlfriend doing it with another guy.
I locked myself inside my room for hours and I could barely even function. I remember just crying and breaking down while laying in bed, unable to make sense of things. She kept sending me texts and I couldn't force myself to read them let alone even have the energy to open my phone.
When I finally had the energy to do so, I read her messages.
It consisted of long paragraphs explaining what happened but basically she told me that she developed feelings for her ex-boyfriend... again (they were together for 4 years before they broke up) and decided to rekindle their relationship after he asked her out on a date again.
I was deeply fucking hurt reading all that but what's even worse is the next set of paragraphs that I received.
She stated in her texts that she knew right from the start that she could never imagine herself ending up with a woman in the future (despite being bisexual) because it's against the Bible. My ex-gf comes from a very religious Catholic family and her parents are the typical homophobic conservatives. We've kept our relationship low-key because of that and when we were together, she told me that she was planning to come out to them once we graduate from Med school.
But I guess it was all a lie from the start.
Idk which is worse: having caught my ex girlfriend having sex with her ex-boyfriend? Or being degraded as nothing but a sinful abomination by her?
I'm was in such a mess and it was one of the darkest days of my life. I'm letting this out here on Reddit because I don't have friends in real life whom I can talk to about this because my relationship with her was very lowkey.
We live in the Philippines and from where I'm from, LGBT+ relationships are looked down upon by a majority of the people here, especially the religious boomers - so relationships like ours tend to be kept secret because society deems it as "sinful". It's so hard to find like-minded LGBTQ+ people who are open to talking about this with me in real life.
Anyways, that was my story. Thank you for reading it this far. I just needed an outlet to let out my feelings and tell my story because it's been a year already but I still keep having nightmares about what happened.
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2020.09.20 16:23 HackTan Help please. Long time lurker

  1. >**What will you be doing with this PC? Be as specific as possible, and include specific games or programs you will be using.**
  2. * playing AAA games and watching twitch, browsing chrome. Dual monitor setup.
  3. >**What is your maximum budget before rebates/shipping/taxes?**
  4. * plus or minus $2,000 Canadian. Pretty loose budget.
  5. >**When do you plan on building/buying the PC? Note: beyond a week or two from today means any build you receive will be out of date when you want to buy.**
  6. * This week or next week
  7. >**What, exactly, do you need included in the budget? (ToweOS/monitokeyboard/mouse/etc\)**
  8. * Just a tower
  9. >**Which country (and state/province) will you be purchasing the parts in? If you're in US, do you have access to a Microcenter location?**
  10. * Ontario, Canada. I have a Canada Computers i go to.
  11. >**If reusing any parts (including monitor(s)/keyboard/mouse/etc), what parts will you be reusing? Brands and models are appreciated.**
  12. * i bought a Odyssey G7 27" monitor, Logitech mouse and keyboard already. i also have ordered a Asus Tuf 3080. its not payed for yet though
  13. >**Will you be overclocking? If yes, are you interested in overclocking right away, or down the line? CPU and/or GPU?**
  14. * Probably not
  15. >**Are there any specific features or items you want/need in the build? (ex: SSD, large amount of storage or a RAID setup, CUDA or OpenCL support, etc)**
  16. * A 3080 gpu. I also would like an inverted case for a left side of the desk build. I also like RGB stuff
  17. >**Do you have any specific case preferences (Size like ITX/microATX/mid-towefull-tower, styles, colors, window or not, LED lighting, etc), or a particular color theme preference for the components?**
  18. * I found a Segotep White Typhon ATX Mid Tower Case on Amazon that has the glass on the right side. Looks like it would have good air flow. I am open to other cases if you can find the rare inverted case. I also like RGB
  19. >**Do you need a copy of Windows included in the budget? If you do need one included, do you have a preference?**
  20. * I can find a copy of windows
  21. >**Extra info or particulars:**
  22. Thanks you very much for helping me with this. I have been a long time lurker, just waiting for the 3000 series gpu's to get released so i can enjoy my first build. Just finished renovating my basement so i can create my own battle station lol.
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2020.09.20 16:23 EggyEggerson0210 Is the tracking actually accurate?

A couple games released on Friday, September 18. I had decided to preorder one of the games, and was worried about receiving my package from USPS, as they have just straight up given the package to a random house before. I was much more calm when I learned that FedEx would be taking care of delivering my package... at least I was until yesterday. The package is coming from Shepherdsville, Kentucky, and on Tuesday or Wednesday, the tracker said that my package would be arriving on Saturday, September 19. This was one day longer than what the website I had preordered the game on had told me, but I was okay with waiting another day, I understood. Fast forward to Friday, it says the shipping label has been made but it hasn’t moved since. I think “Maybe the tracking’s not been updated”. Nope. Throughout the week and even all of Saturday, the tracking said my package would arrive in Saturday, September 19. I check this morning, Sunday, September 20, and the date has now been “updated” to pending. Really? I didn’t realize that! I’ve been looking on this subreddit to figure out customers’ experience with FedEx tracking and have usually seen negative opinions unless it’s from an employee at FedEx. Furthermore, I found a post from 2 years ago in which an employee said that FedEx was hard at working on updating their tracking system. When that’s finished, if that was a truthful statement at all to begin with, that tracking better be fast as lightning on updates. I can’t believe I’m saying this but I genuinely believe that USPS from Kentucky would’ve gotten my package here on the correct date. What’s the deal with this awful tracking system? Why wasn’t the tracking updated when it very obviously wasn’t going to be here by Saturday?
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2020.09.20 16:22 chanlrr I (21m) feeling trapped in first relationship and can only improve on myself if I stick it out, which is selfish and unfair to her. Need advice

The main issue I have faced in my life is commitment, whether it’s leaving half read books everywhere to switching my major multiple times. I’m always onto the next and “better” thing. When I pursue something new I convince myself that this is what I want and dive in head first full of passion, then I get bored and move on; rinse and repeat.
I met a girl at a friends house a month ago and we went on around 10 dates, thinking it was what I wanted (maybe it was what I wanted at the time) we made it official. Looking back we moved very fast, from not knowing eachother to dating in 3 weeks.
I’ve never been in a relationship before and haven’t been with that many girls in any way but since the pandemic I’ve come a long way personally by quitting bad habits and picking up new hobbies, which made me feel good about myself in a long time. So I decided to commit to this girl and now I feel miserable.
I’ve seen a therapist about this “overly idealistic” mindset in the past and it is recommended to me that I try to stick things out, which is easier said than done to me. I feel like all my individuality is gone now and after the improvements I’ve made on myself recently I feel like I taken a big step back.
So I haven’t done anything too dramatic yet, and am trying to let my emotions settle before I make any decision but I am avoidant while I try to figure out and hanging out with friends instead of her any chance I get.
She finally got me to talk about it last night and we decided to slow things down but I feel uncertain about the relationship everyday. What I’m asking for is some guidance on the situation I’m in. My closet friends believe I should stick it out because it’s completely new to me and based on my previous habits, this is just another one of my episodes and I need to stick something out for once.
But isn’t that selfish of me to drag her down with me? Ill have days where I’m avoidant trying to figure out how I’m feeling and it’s not fair to her. Will sticking it out actually improve my issue or is it best to end it before I hurt her anymore?
I’m very good at convincing myself what I should do and block out other opinions but I’m reaching out for anyone’s help on my situation, I’m new to relationships and am out of my element. Thank you for listening.
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2020.09.20 16:19 Solieus Help setting up a task

Hi there looking for advice on trying to get what I want set up:
I want to set up a task for dusting my house. Each week I want to dust a different section of my house. So one week kitchen, one week living room, etc.
I don’t want them all recurring independently, because I don’t want to dust the kitchen again until I have dusted the rest of the house.
I only use the “completion date” types of recurrences for chores. Otherwise things pile up too easily if I miss a week or a chore here or there and I’m stressed and having to constantly reschedule. This is non-negotiable for my ability to use a todo app.
So I want these dust tasks to all work together somehow. Is this possible?
So each week I want a task for “dust.” But each week I want it to be a different section of the house. I tried using a recurring dust task with a checklist for each section to check off as I go, and once I’m done each section once I could just uncheck them all and start over again. But the checklist is made fresh and doesn’t remember its progress from task to task.
Same thing happens with subtasks - the parent task recurs and everything is made fresh.
I could make each subtask recurring and have a due date, but they don’t depend on each other and it would be equivalent to have separate tasks.
The only workaround I can think of is instead of completing the parent task, I have to manually reschedule it. That is quite a pain though!
Any way I can do this? Thanks
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2020.09.20 16:18 brittlovestrees Me (29F) is unhappy with way new love interest (36M) dresses

This has been something I've been trying to delegate and I honestly am not sure what to do or how to feel about this..I also feel generally guilty about it.
Last year I met this guy "Mark" and simultaneously talking to someone else. My beef with Mark compared to the other guy that I ended up dating for almost a year was honestly how he dressed/presented himself. Mark is a such a supportive, funny, friendly, handsome and has his shit together guy. He is definitely seeking my attention and seems to be moving in the direction of wanting a relationship (which is what I'm after) but, he just looks like a rag doll :(. He is an electrician and I'm a forester so, there isn't such a large difference in that (it's not like I'm a high end office lady or something like that). But, he has socks that have a million holes in them, he has clothes that are literally covered in holes EVERYWHEREEE and he sometimes smells like a hard days work when he comes over..doesn't even think to shower. We had plans to hang, he went on a hike with a friend, got smelly and then came over and my couch smelt bad! He didn't even think to just go home and freshen up to come over ya know? It's still so early in the budding relationship that I just wish he gave a shit to impress me just a bit.
I feel really petty about this but, I honestly feel like it's still SUCH a turn off. I want to keep seeing him because I really do enjoy his company but, I just cannot handle looking like shit 95% of the time. Has this happened to anyone else? Do you guys think it's totally out of bounds to talk to someone about their hygiene/dress? Or do you think it's just not worth the time?
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2020.09.20 16:16 brebreezy1888 Awkward Date

I was 17 at the time and I had just broken up with my girlfriend, at this time I didn't want to be in the house so I decided to go out the somebody. I had known this one girl for a while, This Is The Girl That I went out on the date with. Her and I had known each other for two years prior to this date we have had one date on another occasion. Anyway we went out to watch a movie(the movie wasn't in the plans but it ended up being an activity) as she(the girl I'm on a date with, walks to the bathroom, I am just casually standing while there are some other girls checking me out. While I'm waiting a man walks straight ahead in my direction and as he walked in my direction he looks at me and I look at him and as he approaches to me, he then stops and says, "Hey, do you know where the bathroom is so I can go pleasure myself". I looked at him and he looked at me, so then I just stared, while stuttering on the words, "yeah.. jist turn there." As she came out i was just in shock but laughing at the same time. I wanted to tell but I thought no, not yet.
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2020.09.20 16:13 SCATesteR Provisionally passed (1st try) – 150 questions – My experience

Overview
I was originally supposed to sit for this exam back in April, but due to COVID, the exam centers closed. I feel for me at least this was a blessing in disguise because looking back then, I was no where near prepared. That being said, even today there was a substantial gap in readily available study that is mentioned here and what I experienced (more below) which I feel is attributed to the consistently changing trends in both IT security as a business function and technologies
Background
My experience is in IT Compliance/Internal IT Audit manager for the last 3 years, primarily ensuring compliance with multiple client obligations across multiple sectors and regulations (both public and private sector) in addition to being responsible for my companies SOC 1/2, ISO certifications, merger and acquisition risk assessments, third party risk management, BCP/DR, and internal audit program. I honestly think the fact that I work and contribute in so many facets of IT security and am forced to pick up on multiple laws and regulations quickly greatly attributed to my success and without that exposure I don’t believe I would have passed this exam the first time around. Before this current position, I was a systems/network administrator with an expertise in VMWare (was VCP-DCV certified) for a healthcare entity which I also did for 3 years.
Study
Like most I used a lot of the materials mentioned here but I’ll rate the ones I used below and maybe call out one’s others may not be familiar with. I studied for probably close to a year off and on, but nothing super intensive. I’m not a “write it down and memorize” kind of person. I typically enjoy being spoken to and just hearing it consistently for it to fully “click”. I did take a week off before the exam where I studied for 12-15 hours a day for the first 3 days, then opted not to keep diving in because I was driving myself to doubt. Most of my studying came from listening to the Mike Chapple LinkedIn learning while walking around my neighborhood.
Sybex Official Study Guide
Read this from front to back. I think this is probably the most comprehensive book you could use to really get a good grasp of the expected materials on the test. This will give you a solid foundation of the 8 domains and is a great book to skim through towards the end. If you can, I highly recommend the VirtalSource app/e-book. They have an app that you can used both mobile and on pc that allows you to highlight key sections which you can click through which is great if you need to breeze through key topics quickly. Also allows for the use of taking down notes attributed to those sections you highlight. (Rating: 8/10).
LinkedIn Learning CISSP course
I got Lynda/LinkedIn learning through work. I honestly think this was one of the better resources available for me personally for the reasons I mentioned above. I used this in conjunction with Kelly (Cybex) video’s and I thought these were much better. The way it was explained and the “why” resonated more with me. They also went in a slightly bit more technical where I feel the Kelly videos were not so much. (Rating 8/10)
11th Hour
Good book for a last minute refresher, but it is dated and there are pieces missing that are necessary for the exam. My recommendation for those who like to read is run through this first, its quick and fast but will prepare you for the deeper dive pieces in the Sybex guide. (Rating: 6/10)
Kelly (Cybex)
I looked these up based on all the posts I’ve seen here and I thought that these were great in some sections, not so much the others. I feel they are very high level but where I will give credit is her theory behind topics. She do well to expand on some things about why and how aspect but there are some technical pieces are that are excluded that I feel are relevant. In addition, and this could just be me, I felt the videos on the Cybex site seemed “trimmed” where there was more to be said but the conversation seemed to stop abruptly. (Rating 6/10)
Boson Test Questions
These were great. Nothing like the real exam but close enough to where you can get an understanding of what will be there. I ran through these in mini tests towards the end and just do it on a customized section by section base of only 10-15 questions to see and did one full exam of 150 questions which I got an 80% on. While this is a great resource, like the others because of the exam changing there are topics missing. (Rating 8/10)
Exam
So, I kind of botched myself when I went for the exam. I opted for a later exam in the afternoon vs the afternoon because I had this grand plan of studying before and throughout the week, ended up not happening and became slightly agitated and stressed. I still did the same routine most posted, get a good sleep, breakfast, but I ended up just entertaining myself before the test. I went for a run and did drink a lot of chamomile tea before the test just to calm the nerves because of the wait to go the testing center. The test itself was one of the most nervous experiences I’ve had. There is this weird feeling of anticipation and uncertainty. Going into it, I knew it would be a difficult exam but until you see it you don’t really grasp it. As so many others have mentioned, you need to understand the who, what, when, where, how, why in the question. There will be times where its vague, but you need to understand the end goal and objectives in addition to what will be beneficial to the business.
Closing
This test is passable. While understanding processes and what order they’re in, or memorizing multiple definitions is important, the most important is the WHAT and WHY. Why should something be done or why is it beneficial for the business? Does this make the most sense from both a business and security objective perspective? You can pass this, it is doable. When in doubt, just take a breath and remember the CIA while ensuring security aligns with the business objectives. Best of luck to everyone and hopefully this helps.
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2020.09.20 16:11 steveo225 Question: best muffler for C5 convertible

I have a 2004 convertible with no mufflers, just straight through pipes. Pennsylvania requires mufflers to pass the yearly state inspection. I have gotten around this various ways in the past, but it is getting too complicated so I just want to get a nice set of permanent mufflers.
I love the sound of the straight through pipes though. Even with the top down it sounds good and not too loud. So, I am looking for something that has a nice sound, isn’t too expensive, and something relatively common so I don’t have to wait on long delivery times.
Thanks for the advices. Looking forward to driving again without worrying about getting a ticket for out of date inspection
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2020.09.20 16:10 BlookJoe Can I dispute a traffic ticket I haven’t received in court?

I quit my job about two weeks ago. The same night I was driving home I was pulled over. When the officer walked up to my window he immediately asked for my license which I didn’t have (forgot it at home) and Never told me why he pulled me over. Until I asked him when I was in the squad car he claimed, “Failing to yield on a left turn” it was just me and him at that street at 10:00 at night. I had my blinker on and he didn’t. When the light turned green I sat there for a solid 2 seconds before turning and he soon after followed and waited until I got off the main road to pull me over. As I was also getting searched his buddy felt the need to look through my car up and down to see if I had anything in there. (Like wtf). I arrive at the police station and 30 minutes later I’m released with my vehicle having a $500 release and a $200 tow release. And only one ticket that says no valid driver license. NOT a ticket for failing to yield on a left turn. I feel like he pulled me over just because he was bored. So back to my original question, Can I dispute the fact that he gave me a ticket for everything but the actual reason he pulled me over? What would be the turnout ? How should I go about it? My court date is in the next 3 weeks.
EDIT: I live in Illinois USA if that means anything.
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2020.09.20 16:08 just_boof_it [Pre-Match Thread] Aston Villa vs. Sheffield United

Aston Villa vs. Sheffield United
Competition: Premier League - Round 1
Date: Mon 21 Sept 2020
Kickoff: 18:00
Venue: Villa Park
2019/2020 Club Statistics
Goals per game: 1.05
Average Possession: 53.4%
Shooting Accuracy: 33%
Passing Accuracy: 77%
Goals conceded per match: 1.72
Clean Sheets: 7
2019/2020 Club Statistics
Goals per game: 1.03
Average Possession: 45%
Shooting Accuracy: 32%
Passing Accuracy: 74%
Goals conceded per match: 1.03
Clean Sheets: 13
Aston Villa Team News
  • New signing Emiliano Martinez is expected to start in goal for Aston Villa's belated opening league game of the season on Monday.
  • Ollie Watkins and Matty Cash are poised to make their Premier League debuts.
Sheffield United Team News
  • Sheffield United manager Chris Wilder reported no new fresh injuries after his side's Carabao Cup tie against Burnley on Thursday.
  • Debutants Max Lowe, Jayden Bogle, Ethan Ampadu, Wes Foderingham and Oli Burke all impressed Wilder in that game.
Match Facts
  • Sheffield United's most recent away league victory in this fixture was back in January 1966, although they did win at Villa as recently as January 2014 in the FA Cup.
  • The Blades have gone four league games without defeat against Aston Villa, home and away.
  • Villa ended last season with successive home victories. They haven't managed three Premier League wins in a row at Villa Park since a four-match streak in October 2007.
  • The Villans have only earned one point from their past five opening home games of a Premier League season since beating Blackburn in 2011.
  • The Blades haven't started a top-flight campaign with two consecutive defeats since 1973-74.
  • Villa are winless in eight Premier League games in the month of September since beating Liverpool at Anfield in 2014 (D2, L6).
  • Sheffield United have lost four successive league games. They haven't fared worse since a run of six defeats in League One from August to September 2013.
  • Wilder's side are winless in six away league games since beating Crystal Palace 1-0 in February, only managing two points and two goals.
  • New signing Ollie Watkins scored 26 goals for Brentford in 2019-20 - a joint high with Fulham's Aleksandar Mitrovic in the top four English divisions, including the play-offs.
And we're back! I'm feeling quite optimistic about this season and look forward to seeing our boys back in action! Lineups? Predictions? UTV!
Where to watch
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2020.09.20 16:07 mashamboo Are Some girls interested in people with dad bods?

Ok. I know this is a weird question, but it's been in my head for quite a while now, and I just wanted to get it out of my head. Are there any girls that like people with dad bods? Its not like I'm looking for someone to date, but I'm genuinely curios to see if there are any girls out there that like people with dad bods
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2020.09.20 16:06 Itsajamu9 Kanye's Public Contract Negotiations is a Public Image Clean Up Job

Kanye's 2020 campaign is effectively over (even if he doesn't say anything), his goal was to be on the ballot on swing states to become a "spoiler candidate". He wanted the attention for being a spoiler candidate, looks like he sees the writing on the wall. He's on the ballot for 12/50 states, he's not a threat to Biden or Trump.
We've seen this before, back in 2018. Kanye made a pivot from politics/free speech to religion (Sunday Service). This was his way of changing the narrative. He's been doing Sunday Service a little under 2 years now.
We never heard outside of THIS WEEK during 2020 about Kanye frustrations with his label. All of his tweets, interviews were all about fashion, politics and religion. That's why it was so strange, he suddenly announced that he won't release no more music until his contract is dissolved. Keep in mind, he released WUITB too, announced God's country and tweeted 7/24 Donda release date, ....He had the same contract since 2003, so what changed & why fight now??
Now he's showing the public his attempt to get outta of his contract by tweeting everything, attacking UMG, etc. In typical Kanye's fashion, he asked for J Cole & Drake to apologize, called the CEO of UMG poor, peed on a grammy cup and leaked his entire UMG record label contract. These battles are done in private, not in public.
I wish he did this instead of running for POTUS, people would've taken him a lot more serious.
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2020.09.20 16:05 mrgarlicdip Looks like something I could easily do for a date on a budget

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